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Old 05-18-2008, 06:38 PM
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Default Love at first sight ?!

From the ancients times to nowadays the phenomena of "love at first sight" was understood as a passionate love based on a irresistible physical ( and not only ) attraction to a person you see first time in your life . Do you believe in this kind of love or do you think that love must come after a certain period of dating to get to know each other better ?
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Old 05-19-2008, 01:52 AM
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ya i believe in love at first sight.it takes time for few to feel the feelings of love.i dont think the eruption of love comes after a certion period of dating.dating is the physical relation between a male and a female.dating is not the right thing friendship should go on between two to understand eachothers tastes and interests.this makes out a true love.
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Old 05-19-2008, 10:03 AM
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Love is a very big topic and I believe that most people understand love as the emotion but there's more to love than simply feeling love. I've understood love as being a decision, you choose to love someone even though you may not feel anything for them. Feelings will come and change with time. When two people meet they "fall in love" but that feeling is not necessarily love but rather a sense of discovery, passion, and lust. Love really kicks in when you're ready to give your life for that person, ready to make changes in your life for the betterment of the relationship. The feeling of love will change over time and the sense of discovery, passion and lust that was initially felt will change. It can still exist even after 10 years of marriage but it's changed, it doesn't feel the same and that's when people think they fall out of love. The reality is that by choice you could continue to love that person.

That's my opinion.
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Old 05-19-2008, 10:26 AM
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Very nice said , Fabio , I recall now some quotes aboute love of an internationally wel-known American-Jewish-German psychoanalyst and humanistic philosopher , Erich Fromm , that are in line with you've just stated :

"Love is not primarily a relationship to a specific person; it is an attitude, an ordination of character which determines the relatedness of the person to the whole world as a whole, not toward one object of love”

"The first step to take is to become aware that "love is an art," just as living is an art; if we want to learn how to love we must proceed in the same way we have to proceed if we want to learn any other art, say music, painting, carpentry, or the art of medicine or engineering.

What are the necessary steps in learning any art?

The process of learning an art can be divided conveniently into two parts: one, the mastery of the theory; the other, the mastery of the practice. "

“Love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person. Love is an act of faith, and whoever is of little faith is also of little love.”

( from "Art of loving")
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Old 05-19-2008, 03:40 PM
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As much of a romantic that I am, no I don't believe in this. I mean in order to love a person you really have to know if the two of you fit together. After that it's all about looks and everything that follows. How can one say I loved you the moment I saw you? It isn't true, they might've liked what they saw but love?
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Old 05-20-2008, 01:01 PM
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i don't believe in this type of things as love only happens when u get all the details of the one u think u love..
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Old 05-20-2008, 04:26 PM
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I don't believe in 'love at first site'. However, I do believe in lust at first site. I personally believe that love is a complex emotion that you cannot simply be overcome with first time seeing someone. I believe you have to 'fall in love' with someone.
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Old 05-20-2008, 05:13 PM
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. How can one say I loved you the moment I saw you? It isn't true, they might've liked what they saw but love?
However , there are many people that actually do say those words ,more, they do believe in them and surprisingly they are taken seriously by their partners.
I have met persons who trusted only this kind of love ... if they saw a person of opposite sex first time and were not struck suddenly by Cupid 'arrow ,they'd never give a chance to that person ,but keep looking for finding the "right" one who'll make them feel "electrocuted " .
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Old 05-21-2008, 10:11 PM
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there is nothing like love at first sight
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Old 05-22-2008, 08:22 AM
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Have you ever felt in love at first glance , arjit7890 ? come here and tell us the whole story, how ,when and where , how she/he looks like , how responded , how long lasted ....we want and have the right to know
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